It's happened. . .it's happened before, and I am sure that it will happen again. . .but it is still so shocking! When I walked into Mackenzie's classroom today to pick her up from school, I noticed that she was tucked under one of her teacher's arms while they read a book. I thought to myself, "Oh, what a sweet child I have. . .and I am so glad that her teacher's love her enough to cuddle." My sweet thoughts were cut short by the other teacher in the room, who came up to me and said, "I think Mackenzie might have a behavior report today." That was her nice way of saying that she knew Mackenzie had a report, but that I needed to check her mailbox. When I peeked inside, there it was. . .the dreaded behavior report. . .awaiting my signature. . .my admittance that my child is far from perfect.
So, you ask, what did she do??? Well, apparently she wanted a toy that another child had. He used his words to express that he didn't wish for her to take (most likely by force) his toy. So, she in turn used her. . .well, um, hand. . .to. . .um, slap him across the face. Now, believe it or not, I did ask for a "gentle" demo when we arrived home. Trust me, even though she didn't physically smack
me, her demo was enough to prove to me that she, well, slapped the other child. . .
hard.
Now, you ask, what was her punishment???? First we had a "chat" in the car. She hates chatting, despises them in fact. I remember how much I hated chats from my childhood, so it's the one (of a million) things that I share with her now that I am a parent.
When questioned, Mackenzie didn't have a reason for slapping the boy. . .other than the desired toy. So, during our drive home, I had time to think of a suitable punishment.
No cartoons, in fact,
no TV!!! Did you hear the protesting???? By the time we actually arrived home (about 1 1/2 hours after picking her up. . .we stopped at Lowes for a while), she was starting to become a wee bit disobedient. So. . .in addition to no TV, she also got a bit of room time. . .
alone. . .
Her behavior reports are few and far between, and usually consist of some weird way that she has physically harmed
herself. Last time her hand was pinched under a chair that she decided to crawl under. So I guess we are lucky. . .so kids are written up weekly, the really bad ones are written up daily.
That being said, face slapping is totally unacceptable!